I can only support you in your quest, because you can find the perfect partner on a dating site. I have quite a few girlfriends who use this method to start a new relationship, so look for the most popular dating sites.
A friend of mine communicates online a lot and has tried a bunch of dating sites. When she found the site https://www.cupid.com/en/lesbian/, she said he was the best in her life. In addition, there she can communicate with girls, because she is a lesbian and this is important for her. Therefore, the advice of a friend is, to everyone to go and communicate only on this site.